Despite having a girlfriend, a woman at the gym won't leave me alone | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE knowing I have a long-term girlfriend, a woman has taken a shine to me at the gym.

She’s starting to bother me, but I have no clue how to get her to back off nicely.

I’m 24 and she’s 26. We first got talking when she asked for some help with the equipment.

Initially, we got on well, and I thought she was being friendly, yet as time has gone by things have escalated.

She now hugs me every time she sees me, and often comes up to me to make unnecessary conversation.

Sometimes I feel like she even deliberately bumps into me.

How can I tell her that I’m not interested without making things awkward?

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DEIDRE SAYS: I am sorry to hear that this woman is starting to bother you.

It is possible that she is just being friendly but it could also mean that she is interested in you romantically too.

If you have no interest in her the best option would be to try to distance yourself or just answer her briefly and walk away.

She will get the message soon enough and leave you alone.


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