My boyfriend's friends hate me and call me a nag

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my boyfriend but his friends all seem to hate me.

We’ve been together for three years but I am not sure whether I can carry on as we are in this relationship.


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We are both 24 and met at university.

His mates don’t have girlfriends but they seem to put me in a box labelled as a nag and somebody who controls my partner.

I do a lot for my boyfriend and he does a lot for me. I don’t want to come between him and his mates.

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But they are always telling him to ditch me and go out with them instead.

How do I handle them?

DEIDRE SAYS: They are jealous of your relationship and want him back in the fold.

Many young people find it hard to adapt to change when somebody has their head turned away from their usual social circle.

Pretty soon, another one of them will find somebody special too.

If your relationship is strong, you will ride out the storm.

Ignore their comments – and if he is going out with his mates, you go out with yours.

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