DEAR DEIDRE: A COLLEAGUE is half my age and getting married – but I’m in love with her.
I am 55 and she is 25. We have worked in a supermarket together for 18 months.
I have loved her from the moment I met her. I’ve only had one relationship before and that was 20 years ago.
This girl is pretty and has a lovely personality. I kept daydreaming we would be together but now she is getting engaged and has invited me to the engagement party. She doesn’t know how I feel. How can I move on and forget about her?
DEIDRE SAYS: Sometimes when we feel a hopeless love, the truth is we have fallen for them because it is hopeless – and will never have to cope with a real relationship.
See this as a signal it is time to face whatever had made you scared of getting close to someone – painful early experiences maybe.
Try exploring this with a counsellor.
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