My partner trash talks me to his family – now they dislike me | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner has “trash talked” me to his family and now they don’t like me.

I’m 28, he is 30 and we have been together for almost two years.

I rarely see him because he has his children every weekend and we both work full-time.

His family are always on to him to help around the house so there is very little time left for us to see one another.

 I don’t feel as though I am in any way a priority even though he keeps saying things will get better in time.

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I rarely get calls or texts these days.

It wasn’t like this at the beginning. I feel as though I am wasting my time.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your partner should be your number one fan – not someone who feels the need to say horrible things about you behind your back.

It’s vital couples carve out time in their schedules to spend together. 

Despite your pleas, your partner isn’t doing this.

Explain that his behaviour is making you question your entire relationship and if it carries on it won’t survive, so the ball is in his court. 

If nothing changes, you know what you need to do.

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